Eek!! I just realized that Mother’s day is coming up fast! Or not so fast, depending on where you are. For my mom in North America, Mother’s day is the 2nd Sunday in May, but for my kids, the Mother’s day in France (Fête des Mères) on the last Sunday in May.
That is a whole 2 weeks later which makes all difference on when to wish your own mum, and at the same time wondering why no one is serving you breakfast in bed!
Why is it different around the world?
So when do you celebrate Mother’s day? A quick look at Wikipedia and there is quite a variety of dates of when we celebrate Mom around the world.
- In the UK, Ireland and 4 other countries – 4th Sunday in Lent (around March)
- In the US, Canada, Australia, and 190+ other countries – 2nd Sunday in May
- In France and 12 other countries – Last Sunday in May
In the U.S. and Canada
The official Mother’s day movement started with an American named Anna Jarvis who was the 9th of 11 children. She was a social activist and upon the death of her own mother, she campaigned for it to become an official holiday. It became officially recognized in the U.S. in 1908, and was adopted a year later in Canada.
With the United States being an economic powerhouse, other countries quickly followed their lead, and today over 190+ countries celebrate Mother’s day on the 2nd Sunday in May.
In the U.K.
In the U.K., on the other hand, it started as a religious holiday called Mothering Sunday. It falls on the fourth Sunday in Lent, exactly three weeks before Easter Day. Since the idea initially was that people would visit their “mother” church, it became an occasion for honoring the mothers of children and giving them presents.
The modern Mother’s day movement may have started with Anna Jarvis in 1908, but the French idea is actually much older. It was actually more than a century earlier, in 1806 when Napoleon Bonaparte first mentioned the creation of an official Mother’s Day in France, which would be celebrated in the spring.
The idea was less about celebrating women than it was about boosting the population. At the time he himself was desperately trying to have children with his wife Empress Josephine. In between his divorce (in 1809), new marriage, his own subsequent children, and the wars with England, his idea never took hold.
More than 90 years later, in 1897, the National Alliance Against Depopulation launched another idea to boost the low birth rate. They came up with a children’s party, to highlight the importance of fertility and to honor the family.
In 1906 ten mothers who had nine children each was given an award recognizing “High Maternal Merit” (“Haut mérite maternel”). Soon after American World War I soldiers fighting in France popularized Jarvis’s American Mother’s Day idea.
Even today there is a medal by the government for French mothers who have a large family, whether or not they live in France.
But it was not till 1950 when Mother’s day became official in France. Since there are already several other holidays in May, they decided to pick It fixes the date on the last Sunday in May.
So does it mean as an expat/immigrant Maman I get two Mother’s days? Not really, although my kids are young and I can work on this for the future 😉 It is perhaps more a moment of thanks and reflection.
Thankfully, Father’s day seems to have more of a consensus: the U.S., U.K., Canada, and France all celebrate on June 16. So I guess chalk one for reducing the mental load on this Maman, I only have to remember one date! Win!
To celebrate, we’ve put together a collection of Gifts for Mom, whether she is a Maman Poule or a Maman Cool. Let’s face it, Moms, Stepmoms, Grandmas, Moms-in-law, they all deserve a big thank you for taking care of us, our spouses, the kids, the furkids, etc. etc. The list never stops, and these Wonder Women handle it all, so let’s wish them well!
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